Looking after the Grandchildren - Devon

In the past two generations, the number of children cared for by grandparents has jumped substantially from 33% to 82%*.

It may seem scarcely credible, but this statistic will not raise the eyebrows of those who have been following the shift in social behaviour.

This enormous shift is a result of grandparents, who in part, have come to the rescue of working parents; those Mums and Dads who sometimes struggle to meet the costs of childcare.

As some of the formal childcare costs continue to rise, relying on other members of the family can be an appealing option.

Collectively, as a nation, we make huge savings. In fact, childcare provided by grandparents saves the UK economy over £7 billion a year!

 

Recent research by Grandparents Plus found that 2.2 million grandparents look after their grandchildren to allow the child’s parents to go to work and 1 million do so because the parents cannot afford childcare.

 

Yet, although many grandparents relish the time spent with their grandchildren, they may not leap at the prospect of being responsible for the everyday care. Interestingly, research shows us that 39% of grandparents would like to have a life free from too many family duties.

Therefore, it is so important for grandparents to be honest and express what is within their capability. It can be exhausting, even if it is fun, to look after children.

The recognition of the role of grandparents and their contribution to society is becoming more apparent. This extends well beyond the realms of childcare savings.

What they have to offer is what children often thrive on – time and attention.

As many parents get swept away with the hectic pace of modern day life, the older generation are perceived as patient and relaxed.

Children who benefit from a strong bond with their elders not only benefit emotionally and mentally but also gain a better sense of identity.

Grandparents very often make strong role models and mentors, plus they are superb historians – telling stories of days gone by, teaching the importance of heritage and passing on family traditions.

Map Family History

Children are often fascinated to hear what life was like before mainstream TV and computer consoles ever existed. Yet, these stories can easily fade as time trickles by, so the elder family members should be encouraged to write down facts, thus preserving memories for future generations. 

This could be supported with memorabilia, family photos, service medals, trophies and even grandma’s wedding dress!

Another great way to map family history is to delve into grandpa’s memory banks and ask him to create a family tree. This all helps to give a child a stronger sense of identity.

 

Teaching new technologies to Grandparents

However, family learning works both ways. Children are able to teach their grandparents about new technologies and how to use different forms of communication, therefore increasing the quality, range and extent of contact.

Modern day grannies and granddads are clueing up on tablets and mobile phones, and many keep in touch via email and FaceTime.

The rewards of maintaining a strong relationship between all generations cannot be over-emphasised, and children will thrive in a family environment that has depth, and is nurturing.

An integral part of this tapestry is the grandparent, whose love, care and support is simply priceless.

 

Did you know?

 

 

More information:

Grandparents Plus - a national charity, promoting the vital role of grandparents and the extended family in children’s lives, particularly where parents are no longer able to care for their children. Visit www.grandparentsplus.org.uk

Gransnet - a social networking site for the over 50s. Visit www.gransnet.com

 

 

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